Monday, December 12, 2005

Hell has frozen over...

Wow. I'm still stunned. I knew my life was going a little too drama free to not have this come back and hit me out of left field. My ex girlfriend...Laurel...just called me a few minutes ago and apologized for how shitty and crazy she had been acting up to the point that we stopped speaking to each other this past September. I'm not really sure what to make of it. She's living in Colorado with her boyfriend so I can't think it's a ploy to get me back. I can't see why her apologizing to me helps anything in her life. I can't figure it out...she's usually not one for ulterior motives either but I can't help but think in her case that one exists. Then again maybe she's growing up and realized that a lot of what happened back in September was rather petty and silly. Either way it was an unexpected and emotional kick in the gut I wasn't expecting. She called me at work which meant I had absolutely no time and more importantly no privacy to communicate with her. I was a complete loss for words to be sure and even now I'm stumbling for an emotional "righting" on how I feel about this. Ugh.

Maybe she couldn't resist the new haircut and hot body I'm making for myself :)

Bleah

7 Comments:

Blogger Thisisit! said...

My bottom line guess? Things aren't going so well w/ Colorado man and in her unhappiness this was a way of reaching out an reconnecting with you (and hoping it/you would make her feel better on some level). She called you at work bc either that was the only private time she had to make the call, or she has impulse control issues.... :) (OR.... she's getting married and feels she needs to make things right b4 the big day...lol!) Either way, don't let it mess with you buddy! Think Gym Girl, Gym Girl, Gym Girl!!!

4:38 AM  
Blogger Suzanne said...

Hmmmm...vewwwwyyyy intewestingggg. I'm thinking the same thing as Carol..that maybe the grass isn't greener with Colorado man. I think we sometimes take for granted the wonderful things in our relationships and just focus on the shitty negative things. Then when we move onto a new relationship, we found out that the shitty negative things in the new relationship make the shitty negative things in the old relationship look really really small.

She may end up calling again. And you may end up having to think about whether or not you want her back.

Vewwwy intewesting indeed :)

xo

6:34 AM  
Blogger None said...

Since I don't know the details of what went down all I can say is - tis the season to reconnect with old flames!

Like Carol and Suzanne - very interesting. Things aren't all rosy with Mr. Rocky Mtn High otherwise she wouldn't be calling. PFFT. Gym girl, gym girl, gym girl...

7:33 AM  
Blogger Thisisit! said...

...Jen... the season for reconnecting w/ old flames...? hmmmmm you got a plan or something? ps: at 8:15 a.m. it was 19 degrees.... bet you don't miss this!

8:02 AM  
Blogger None said...

Bubble - Don't get me in trouble now! ha ha! No - it's just that I heard on the radio this very morning that 42% of women get in touch with an old boyfriend during the holidays. That percentage is MUCH lower for guys - less than 20% I think. And they were debating back and forth what the significance/hidden agenda, etc. was for that phenomenon. I think our blend Jeremy is witnessing the phenom firsthand.

10:08 AM  
Blogger havlow said...

Thanks for the comments ladies. Yeah I don't know what's up with that. I've had friends assume that she's either in a 12 step program, about to go to jail, about to get married or about to show up at my front door begging to be taken back. All are fairly realistic answers...I"m staying strong. Now is that Gym Girl would just make another appearance...dammit :)

12:28 PM  
Blogger Thisisit! said...

are you friendly at w/ the folks at your gym's front desk...? you could always take matters into your own hands and ask about her...

3:43 PM  

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